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		<title>5 Ways to Create Time and Get More Done</title>
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<h1 style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #800080;">Banish Time &#8211; Get More Done</span></strong></h1>
<p>Do ever feel that you have more &#8220;to dos&#8221; than you do day?  Is   overwhelm feel like a place that you reside rather than a temporary   state of mind?   Do boring <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Time_management">time management techniques</a> make you feel like   a boa constrictor is squeezing the life force and creativity right out   of you?   If you are finding it difficult to cram your life in to the   time management techniques you have, let me introduce you to your new  secret weapon/time  creator <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/build-the-foundation-for-your-success/">energy management.</a> When you feel pressed or  behind the “eight  ball” or you are about to fall under the wave of  overwhelm these are the five things you can do to create more time, get  more done and have fun.</p>
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<p>The first thing you need to do is breathe.   Breathing, especially   deep breathing allows your mind and body to connect.  It also connects   your &#8220;spirit&#8221; and energy so you can begin to harness that part of  your  self.   We are human beings not human “doings” and we all run on   energy.   Breathing and focusing on what is happening right now in the   present is the same as filling your car with a full tank of gas.   When   you are in the now or<a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/four-steps-to-unlock-the-genie-within-you/"> “being present” </a>you naturally focus on what is   important.  You have access to power and the ability to harness as  much  energy as you need to get the task you need done.   Being in the now  takes you out of time management and connects you to your power.   Remember the  present is perfect that is why it is a gift.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>The power to get things done is in the NOW. </strong></h3>
<p>When you find yourself in  overwhelm or feel really stressed or  frustrated that is a clue you are  not in the NOW.   Overwhelm occurs  when you focus on the all the details  of a task at once.   When you get  too focused on the details or the &#8220;how&#8221;  things get done you are  focusing on the wrong thing.   The key is to take  you out of the valley  and <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/focus-on-the-outcome/">focus on the end. </a> Go to the mountain top and  take a look at the  view and see the big picture.    I promise it looks completely   different and it feels much better.   You see things on the top that you   can’t in the valley.  You can see the ENTIRE picture and ways to get   things done in ways that you could not imagine.    When you focus on the  end you  are taking yourself out of time management and traveling to  the future  where the task has been completed successfully.  Remember  <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/focus-on-your-basics/">success always  leaves clues</a>.    The how to get things done is always  available when you  focus on the end.</p>
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<h2><strong>Make Time to Put Your Self First</strong></h2>
<p>This is difficult for many people, including myself.   My natural   instinct is to put everyone else first including my &#8220;to dos&#8221;.  Do you  find yourself saying you don&#8217;t have time?  I have  found this is true  for many of my brother and sister “human doings” who live in time  management.    This is the wrong strategy to implement when you have a  busy to do list.  Remembering to <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/monday-musing-what-are-you-putting-first/">put yourself first</a> works  much better and allows you to get  more done in less  time.</p>
<p>Let me explain.   Time management focuses you on  time and no matter  what you do there is only 24 hours in a day and 168  hours in a week.   We can do our best to cram as much as we can into time  but like house  or computer it has its storage limits.   If you put too  much stuff in,  it is going to get crowded and feel overloaded.   Have you  ever had  your computer crash?   Why did it crash?  Information overload,  you put  too much in too little of a space.   The same thing happens with  t<strong>ime  management and human beings.</strong></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="color: #000000;">Time Management is Finite&#8230;Energy Management is Infinite</span></strong></h3>
<p>Have you ever heard the terms “crash  and burn” and procrastination?   These are symptoms and natural outcomes  of time management.   Even  great time management techniques create these  outcomes when pushed  beyond its limits&#8230;   With energy management there  are no limits.    You can create as much as you need. <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/about-you/personal/"> Energy management</a> focuses you on  creating energy and the way to do that is to put yourself  first.   The  principle is simple.   The more “to dos” that you have to  get done the  more energy you need and your time is best served putting  yourself  first and fueling up.</p>
<p>How do you create energy?   Great  question!   You focus on your  energy centers.    Eating, sleeping,  exercising, having fun, feeding  your creativity and passions.   You might  be thinking right, how am I  going to fit that in?   Energy management  requires this because putting  your self first allows you to focus and  manage the fuel you need to  skyrocket your mindset outside of time and  space to harness the power  of energy.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Give Yourself Room  to Breathe and Get More Things Done</strong></strong></strong></strong></h3>
<p>Energy is your natural state of  being and allows you to get more  done with less and still have time for  fun.   The more you need to get  done the more energy you need.   You can  create as much as you can  handle.   Even if you don’t get EVERYTHING done  on your list you are  energized, focused and motivated to find ways to  have everything  accounted for and you <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/free-stuff/11-reasons/">avoid the familiar “crash and  burn” syndrome </a>and  familiar procrastination patterns.</p>
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<h2><strong>Manage Your Big Rocks </strong></h2>
<p>You  may have heard me saying this before in a <a rel="nofollow" href="http://linkedinformarketing.com/how-to-reach-your-goals-in-2011/"><strong>previous post.</strong> </a>Your   big rocks are the FIVE things that when properly managed keeps   everything else moving forward and takes care of the small things.    Have  you ever read the book <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.amazon.com/Dont-Sweat-Small-Stuff-Its/dp/0786881852">“Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff”?</a> If not  read it  because it is a great book and explains energy management in a  great  way.   It teaches you to focus on the big things because the big  things  naturally take care of the small things.   Strategy always  dictates  tactical action.   When you choose to focus on the small  things and  details you tend to get buried or lost in them and never  find your way  back to the top where you need to be.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Big Rocks are the way to  get things done and have time for fun </strong></h3>
<p>The challenge with time  management is that it leads you down the  slippery slope to what time  managers call “busy work”. Busy work is  what you tend to focus on when  you are overwhelmed, tired or unsure of  how to tackle the big stuff.   When  you <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/put-your-big-rocks-first/">manage your big rocks</a> you  naturally show up to what needs to be  done and have time for fun too.</p>
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<h2><strong>Complete the Six Most Important Things to Do</strong></h2>
<p>If  you have made it this far you are definite interested in energy   management.   If you are a die hard time manager you may feel like   Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, saying “I don’t think we are in Kansas   anymore, Toto”.  Well, true but we are not that far away either.   Here   is a technique that you will recognize it just has a new look and  twist.    Your list.   Most champion time managers have a &#8220;to do&#8221; list.     Sometimes your list is longer than Kobe Bryant’s leg.   That is fine  keep it but call  it a <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/drain-your-brain/">data dump list</a>.   Put everything on that list.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Choose the six most  important things that need to be done in the next 90 days. </strong></h3>
<p>Choose the six most important things that need to be accomplished in  the <a rel="”nofollow”" href="http://www.successgenie.com/what-you-get/coaching/coaching-programs/back-to-basics-boot-camp/">next 90 days.</a> You read it correctly, 90 days.  Not today or this  week.   Focus on the end.  Once you have  your horizon list (that is  what I call it) break down your to dos in to  steps.   Tiny steps and  it is these steps that you incorporate into your  daily/weekly to do  list.    Each list whether it be a daily, weekly or  Monthly to do list  keep to only six things.   If you get tasks done ahead  of time you can  cross them off and add another task to your six most  important to do  list.   Keeping only six in front of you rather that the  entire data  list will help you focus and implement the above steps.    Even if you  fall back to the familiar land of time management you will  feel  energized and empowered and ready to battle the boa called time.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Banish old time management techniques, embrace energy management to get more done and have time for fun.</strong></h3>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2009 12:26:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happy New Year! I am so excited about this New Year. My business theme this year is &#8220;It time to shine in 2009.&#8221; I invite you to share it and make it yours too. One of the first things that I do every year is put closure on the previous year. I take time to [...]]]></description>
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<p>Happy New Year!</p>
<p>I am so excited about this New Year.  My business theme this year is &#8220;It time to shine in 2009.&#8221;   I invite you to share it and make it yours too.  One of the first things that I do every year is put closure on the previous year.  I take time to reflect on what happened and what I learned during the past year.</p>
<p>This year was a difficult year on a personal note with the passing of my <a href="http://www.successgenie.com/life-is-what-happens-while-you-are-busy-making-plans/"><strong>Great-Aunt Eleanor</strong></a>, and the death of our beloved cat &#8220;Angel&#8221; who was hit by a car on my birthday.  They were my personal mentors and life pillars who have shaped the person who I have become.  It also was a fantastic year of growth and personal development and new friendships.</p>
<p>But as with every year it is time to <a href="http://www.successgenie.com/close-the-gate-on-2008close-the-gate-on-2008"><strong>&#8220;Close the Gate on 2008.&#8221;</strong></a></p>
<p>This is my process to complete the old and ring in the New Year:</p>
<h4><strong>Record and Resign the Previous Year</strong></h4>
<p>Write down what happened during the year.  Record your feelings and thoughts as an act of acceptance.  Acknowledge that you did your best at the time and compile a list of all the things you learned from your experiences.</p>
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<h4><strong>Release the Past</strong></h4>
<p>Once you are finished writing about the year, forgive yourself for anything you did or did not do.  Release the &#8220;woulda&#8221;, &#8220;shoulda&#8221; and coulda&#8221; in your life. If you have any goals that you didn&#8217;t get to or finish, do <strong>NOT </strong>bring them with you into the New Year.  Put them on your energy drain list.  This leaves you free to&#8230;</p>
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<h4><strong>Realign with your Birthright</strong></h4>
<p>Re-align with what is really important to you and create goals to make them real in 2009.</p>
<blockquote><p>For example if you set a goal to loose weight in 2008 and you didn&#8217;t accomplish it take it off your goal list and put it on your <a href="http://www.successgenie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/12/success-genie-energy-drains.doc"><strong>energy drain list</strong>.</a> The fact that it didn&#8217;t happen makes it a drain.</p>
<p>Re-align with what you felt loosing the weight would do for you and make that the goal.  Maybe you thought loosing weight would make you feel happy or feel sexy.  Make a list of things that make you happy and take action on those things.  Make feeling sexy your goal and do things that make you feel sexy.  Go get dressed up in great clothes, go dancing, or get out of your rut by doing something active.  These things will bring you what you desire and the by-product will be loosing weight and looking healthy.</p></blockquote>
<p>Make a list of things that you really love to do and make these your priorities in 2009.  Doing what you love always brings money and success to you.  Dare to be different and do what you love.</p>
<h4><strong>Receive and Say &#8220;Yes&#8221; to Success</strong></h4>
<p>By taking the above steps you are removing your obstacles to success and allowing success to come to you.  You are now ready to set business goals and really see results.</p>
<p>Save the date <strong>Monday January 12<sup>th</sup></strong> for a very special free call.  <strong>&#8220;Five Steps to Jump Start Your Year.&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>When you sign up for our Success Newsletter [in the sidebar] you will receive a personal invitation to be on the call and get some great tips on how you and your business can shine in 2009.  The newsletters are filled with marketing tips, strategies and relationships to help you to grow and prosper.</p>
<p>Leave a comment about this blog and tell me what you need to succeed in 2009.  I have dedicated this blog to your success and I will write about what is important to you.  Ask the genie and I will answer you.  These are my thoughts about the next couple of posts.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Thoughts for next blog:</span></strong></p>
<p>Jump Start the New Year</p>
<p>Realign yourself and realize your success</p>
<p>Take the Time to Shine in 09&#8242;</p>
<p>Declare Your Desire</p>
<p>Goal Setting: Make it S.M.A.R.T.</p>

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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hope you had a wonderful Turkey Day. We enjoyed the holiday with family and friends. After appropriately stuffing ourselves Angelus and I went to work feverishly with out tech guru Rob Bronson transforming the Success Genie site, bringing it into the 21st century and into the modern age of the internet, www.successgenie.com Success Genie.com [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I hope you had a wonderful Turkey Day.<span> </span>We enjoyed the holiday with family and friends.<span> </span>After appropriately stuffing ourselves Angelus and I went to work feverishly with out tech guru Rob Bronson transforming the Success Genie site, bringing it into the 21<sup>st</sup> century and into the modern age of the internet,</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Success Genie.com is now a state-of-art, modern, interactive blog. I am so excited because with the blog I have the ability to communicate and interact with you.<span> </span>I promised to share success creating tips and opportunities to grow your business and create the life of your dreams and with this blog I can!</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Your feedback and communication will tell me what you need and how I need to mold the blog to fit your needs.<span> </span>This blog is about Success Genie and our resources but it’s intention is for YOU and YOUR success.<span> </span></p>
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